It is the past that, if we consider and love trying to build a better way of living, teaches us to understand what is right or wrong, but for those who think in negative, it becomes nightmare and the thing to put them into regret. It is the present that paves the way for us to do all good and to make effort to reach a high position, and that is also a gift for those who are preparing to gain what they want in this very life. Then, needless to say that it is the future that is a dream and uncertainty if we don't go on in the line of right view and thought, yet it may become the pleasant moment full of all we want in our lives if we are diligent and mindful to all around and beyond. This is because contentment and mindfulness are the best way to feel delighted with all we have and to reach a Higher Abode and even to Nibbana.
We should try to live now happily because now is the gift or the tool to solve all difficult and to earn all good. We shouldn't waste time longing for a fairy-tale in the future that is far way and full of uncertainty nor feel bitter thinking of the things left undone nor feel displeased with what we had in the past. It is this present moment that is the best tool to deal with all good or bad. Don't forget this: this moment is our lives and gift to go on and to gain all we want.
Monday, July 26, 2010
Thursday, July 1, 2010
Be Patient And Cultivate Loving-kindness
What will you 
do if you were looked down without doing anything to hurt others? What if you were criticized even though you are doing your best and cultivating good will to all? What should we do and say when we are talking this and that or more with an opposite view-holder who is ever ready to attack you with harsh words in some way? Will you argue with him or her or give up all your viewpoints? What do you think is the best way to tackle this kind of matter? This is, in fact, what we all are facing in association with one another in daily life. It is said that patience and loving-kindness are the most effective tools to deal with all kinds of problem. What will happen to us if we keep silent and develop good-will to such talkers? This is also a workable way, I think and am doing. It is true that association with many people at every time is subject to feel pain and sorrow. Noteworthy fact is this that starting a solitary way of living is the way to feel calm and happy for there is no argument nor disagreement whatever it is. By doing so, we can read and do all good like meditation or more. As human beings, we have to talk with people and do things whether we like it or not. At that time, to avoid such above mentioned facts, be patient and generate good-will to all thus keeping on silent if you don't want to feel and hear more and more terrible words again and again.
do if you were looked down without doing anything to hurt others? What if you were criticized even though you are doing your best and cultivating good will to all? What should we do and say when we are talking this and that or more with an opposite view-holder who is ever ready to attack you with harsh words in some way? Will you argue with him or her or give up all your viewpoints? What do you think is the best way to tackle this kind of matter? This is, in fact, what we all are facing in association with one another in daily life. It is said that patience and loving-kindness are the most effective tools to deal with all kinds of problem. What will happen to us if we keep silent and develop good-will to such talkers? This is also a workable way, I think and am doing. It is true that association with many people at every time is subject to feel pain and sorrow. Noteworthy fact is this that starting a solitary way of living is the way to feel calm and happy for there is no argument nor disagreement whatever it is. By doing so, we can read and do all good like meditation or more. As human beings, we have to talk with people and do things whether we like it or not. At that time, to avoid such above mentioned facts, be patient and generate good-will to all thus keeping on silent if you don't want to feel and hear more and more terrible words again and again.
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